Michael M. Kocet is currently Professor of Counseling and former Assistant Vice Chancellor for Graduate Education (20023-2025) at the University of Colorado Denver. In his role as AVC, he was the chief administrative officer for graduate education, providing oversight and leadership to over 75 graduate programs in seven schools and colleges. He is co-author of the text Ethical Decision Making for the 21st Century Counselor and is author of Counseling Gay Men, Adolescents, and Boys: A Strength-Based Guide for Helping Professionals and Educators. Dr. Kocet is a Fellow of the American Counseling Association, the highest award given by the counseling profession in recognition of lifetime contributions to the profession. He is past president of the Society for Sexual, Affectional, Intersex, and Gender Expansive Identities. He served on the Association for Adult Development and Aging Grief Best Practices task force which created national guidelines for grief counseling. In his personal time he runs 5K races and half marathons, is a foodie and cook, and is dog dad to Malley and Aspen.
Areas of Expertise
His professional areas of interest include: ethical issues in counseling; counseling LGBTQ+ individuals; grief counseling, and culinary therapy, which is the therapeutic use of cooking in counseling.
Education, Licensure & Certifications
- PhD in Counselor Education and Supervision, University of Arkansas (2001)
- Master of Arts in Counseling, Bowling Green State University (1994)
- Bachelor of Liberal Studies, Bowling Green State University (1993)
- Licensed Mental Health Counselor (Massachusetts)
- Board Certified Counselor (NCC)
- Approved Clinical Supervisor (ACS)
Resumes/CV:
Awards
- 2025 Recipient, Distinguished Alumni Award, Clinical Mental Health & School Counseling
Programs, College of Education and Human Development, Bowling Green State University.
- 2024 Recipient, Distinguished Alumni Award, Department of Counseling, Leadership and
Research Methods, College of Education and Health Professions, University of Arkansas.
- 2020 Recipient, American Counseling Association Class of 2020 Fellow. The ACA Fellow Award is the highest recognition in the profession of counseling for a lifelong commitment and leadership to the counseling field.
Affiliations
- American Counseling Association
- Association for Counselor Education and Supervision
- Association for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC)
- Society for Sexual, Affectional, Intersex, and Gender Expansive Identities (SAIGE)
- Council of Graduate Schools (CGS)
- Association for Counseling Sexology and Sexual Wellness (ACSSW)
Research
Dr. Kocet's research interests are related to mental health ethics, LGBTQ+ issues in counseling, and is currently working on a research project related to culinary therapy.
Publications and Presentations
Books:
- Sheperis, D., Henning, S., & Kocet, M. (2025). Ethical decision-making for the 21st century counselor, 2nd edition. Cognella.
- Sheperis, D., Henning, S., & Kocet, M. (2016). Ethical decision-making for the 21st century counselor. Sage.
- Kocet, M. (Ed.) (2014). Counseling gay men, adolescents, and boys: A guide for helping professionals and educators. Routledge.
Publications (partial list):
- Chaney, M. & Kocet, M. M. (2025). Ethical and legal considerations in LGBTQ+ affirmative addictions
counseling. In M. Chaney & M. Brubaker (Eds). LGBTQ+ affirmative addictions counseling: In their
own words. Cognella.
- Kocet, M., McDonald, C. & Haberstroh, S. (in submission). Brief relational cultural theory. In D. Paladino
& C. M. Bennett (Eds.). Brief counseling: Principles and practice. American Counseling Association.
- Blueford, J., Doughty Shane, M.J., Doughty Horn, E.A., Kepič, M., Kocet, M.M., Kostohryz, K., Jean-
Philippe, S., & Hartman, J.R. (in submission). Grief counseling best practices: A Delphi study. Journal
of Adult Aging & Development.
- Kocet, M. (2024). Connection and mutuality with queer clients. In N. Smith (Ed.). Queering connection: Narrative of healing in relational cultural therapy with queer and transgender clients. Cognella.
- Kocet, M. M. & Valente, A. M. (2021). Supporting LGBTQA students through coming-out processes. In C. McGill, & J. Joslin (Eds.). Advising lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and queer college students in the 21st century. Sterling, VA: Stylus.
- Suprina, J.S., Matthews, C.H., Kakkar, S., Harrell, D., Brace, A., Sadler-Gerhardt, C., Kocet, M. (2019). Best
practices in cross-cultural counseling: The intersection of spiritual/religious identity and affectional/sexual identity. Journal of LGBT Issues in Counseling, 13:4, 293-325. DOI: 10.1080/15538605.2019.1662360.
- Kocet, M.M.. & Herlihy, B. (April 2014). Addressing value-based conflicts within the counseling relationship: A decision-making model. Journal of Counseling and Development, 92, 180-186. DOI: 10.1002/j.1556-6676.2014.00146.x
Presentations (Partial list):
- Kocet, M. (October, 2025). Ethical bracketing in the counselor education classroom. Association for
Counselor Education and Supervision Biannual Conference. Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
- Shane, M., Blueford, J., Kostohyrz. K., Kocet, M, Hartman, J. Jean-Philippe, S., (October, 2025). Introducing
the best practices for grief counseling: Fundamental preparation and training for a universal presenting issue. Association for Counselor Education and Supervision Biannual Conference. Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.
- Cunningham, M., Gibbons, B., & Kocet, M. (July, 2025). Supporting graduate student mental health and
wellbeing. Council of Graduate Schools Summer Institute. Portland, Oregon.
- Hildreth, M., Kocet, M., & Ward, R.M. (July, 2024). Freshman Deans’ Reflections. Council of Graduate
Schools New Deans Institute. Boston, Massachusetts.
- Kocet, M. (April, 2024). Driving while grieving: Working, playing, and living with grief through the lifespan.
American Counseling Association National Conference. New Orleans, Louisiana.
- Kocet, M., Blueford, J., & Horn, E. (October, 2023). Integrating grief and loss in the counselor education
curriculum. Association for Counselor Education and Supervision Biannual Conference. Denver, Colorado.
- Kocet, M. & Sanabria, S. (March, 2023). Ethical and competent practice in LGBTQ+ sexuality and
sexual wellness. American Counseling Association National Conference. Toronto, Ontario, Canada.